The books I loved (and hated) in 2024

The Reading Challenge goal that I set for for 2024 was 40 books, and I read 45! I have been setting a reading challenge every year since 2014. It’s fun to see how my reading habits have changed over the years, and how my identity as a Reader has grown.

The Books I Loved (and Hated) in 2019
2018 Books I Read
2015 (when I first completed the 52 books in 52 weeks challenge!)

Annnnnnnd I guess those are the only years that I’ve done a year-in-books review. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

For the last few years I have read at least 50 books. And in 2024… I did not! 😂 I am learning how to savor really, REALLY good books. To be patient with myself when I’m “only” doing 25-30 pages a night. I regularly bring library books with me on vacation (including while camping in Yosemite this summer). I regularly do not read my library books while on vacation. I restarted my reading streak 32 times this year. I am currently on day 53 of my current reading streak. I complicated things for my page tracking app when I tried to log in from a time zone 12 hours in the future. But I also read one of my most favorite books on that Asian island. I tried the library challenge and puttered out. I tried to read books for pizza… and remembered that I don’t really like pizza*.

In any event, I am setting myself for failure by having more than one vacation scheduled for the year and a reading goal for 50 books for 2025. I also plan to re-read at least 2 books this year.

Fun stat, courtesy of Beanstack
Based on their totally unhelpful little graph without any other supporting data, it looks like a straight line from 2023 to 2024 when I change the view to “Pages” and “All Time.” Which assumes I read about 14,000(ish) pages each year over the last two years!

Exciting new finds:
Little Weirds by Jenny Slate. It’s been a minute since I have found a book worthy of dogeared pages and marked notes in the margins.

“A prayer:
As the image of myself becomes sharper in my brain, and more precious, I feel less afraid that someone else will erase me by denying me love.”

My Top 3 Favorite Books of 2024:
#1 Shark Heart: A Love Story
#2 The Other Valley
#3 (and not even in a close third position) God of the Woods

 

Nothing I read this year compared to Shark Heart. I will probably re-read it again in 2025. This is on my Top 5 FOREVER FAVORITES list, too. It is beautiful, it is heartbreaking – YOU MUST SUSPEND BELIEF. But you will most definitely transform alongside the book. I will take no further comments.

 

 

 

 

 

If you do not love love or sharks (fuck you), then I will recommend The Other Valley to you. If you watched the original Quantum Leap in the 90s you will love this book. But that might be Future Mel’s perspective. DO NOT MAKE EYE CONTACT. This is the kinda book that will right fuck you up in trying to figure out if it’s past or present or future, in that “could I have done anything to change my life” kinda way. This book will also break your heart.

 

 

 

 

I guess I have my theme for the year. Yes, reader, 2024 truly did break my heart.

Best Non-Fiction:
Money, Power, Respect: How Women in Sports are Shaping the Future of Feminism by Macaela MacKenzie. Receiving this book was surrounded by an already-incredibly empowering (work) conference that included a panel about women in sports with MacKenzie and other incredible folks like Jenny Nguyen from the Sports Bra (!!). I’m so jealous at my former self that got to experience this. But also, read this book. And support women’s sports.

Biggest Disappointments:
Annie Bot, WTAF. See also: All Fours. You guys… 😑

Interesting thought:
I read a lot more… ahem, SEXY books than I ever have. This was not a premeditative intent, and I am also done getting recommendations from you guys because the spicy parts did not equal overall good books. At all.

Worst of the worst:
I am not someone who likes to read serials and OMG was I so mad about realizing that Dirty Diana was book #1 in a to-be-continued story. For most books, I like to immediately forget them. I like my books to be self-contained little pieces of joy… and then I move onto the potentiality of another momentous journey (even if that journey is a total Hate Read). Please note, I am also pissed at Book of the Month for letting this be the cliffhanger of the year.

*unless it’s Detroit style. Don’t @ me.

Reading Challenge: 2018 Books I’ve Read

I already read quite a bit for grad school, but I still make time to read outside of my assignments. My Reading Challenge goal for 2018 was to finish two books per month – one fiction and one non-fiction – totaling 24 books for the year. I haven’t been including my textbooks, since I generally skip around chapters depending on weekly topics; though I have included books that are required readings and that I complete traditionally from beginning-to-end.

In any event, as of a couple days ago, I have completed my 2018 challenge!

Most of my book recommendations come from Goodreads and Book of the Month* membership, and I am back-logged a bit on titles (despite skipping a few months but also realizing that I pre-paid for a 6-month membership which… I guess has been revamped?).

Here are some of the books I finished (I didn’t list or review everything, but check out my Goodreads profile for all the books on my shelves!):

The Wife Between Us by Greer Hendricks – I think I spent all New Year’s Day reading/finishing this book. Solid suspense and storyline!

Peak Performance: Elevate Your Game, Avoid Burnout, and Thrive with the New Science of Success – I was hoping it would be heavier on the burnout stuff, but overall 5 STARS for those in the performance/sports space (or interested in those concepts). Stulberg and Magness have a knack for breaking down science for the masses.

One Day We’ll All Be Dead and None of This Will Matter by Scaachi Koul – This is another one of those books where I feel that everyone else loves it, and I’m left feeling… empty. It was funny at times, but it wasn’t the expected belly laugh that others presented it to be.

Activating Happiness: A Jump-Start Guide to Overcoming Low Motivation, Depression, or Just Feeling Stuck by Rachel Hershenberg – Thanks to the publisher, New Harbinger, for sending a copy of this great non-fiction book about how to introduce happiness strategies to counteract low motivation and negative moods. Based on scientific research, there are some good takeaways – some new info and some you’ve probably heard before (given if you’re interested in this genre). I gave it 4 stars out of 5.

The Broken Girls by Simone St. James – This was a little departure from what I would normally read. The “ghost story” element of it got me too freaked out to read it when my husband was traveling and I was home alone. The ending was a surprise, despite a BUNCH of theories I developed along the way in reading. A very satisfying book (don’t read it home alone lol).

The Gift of Therapy: An Open Letter to a New Generation of Therapists and Their Patients by Irvin Yalom – This was an assigned read for my counseling course… which had me in tears as I finished the last page. It is SUCH a beautiful book! And if you work at all in the helping professions, I would highly encourage you to read it.

Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body – Despite finishing this book in March, I’m still thinking about it. I’m not sure if I liked it or not – which is probably #unpopularopinion. I’m not someone who connects to Gay’s writing but she has a powerful message to tell. The book is often very uncomfortable to read… and that is exactly why I would recommend it.

Not That I Could Tell by Jessica Strawser

Then She Was Gone by Lisa Jewell

The Weight of Silence by Heather Gudenkauf – One of my few 5-star ratings (for fiction) of the year. I randomly found out about this book from someone’s Instagram post. It has the added appeal for me, in that it takes place in a humid Iowa summer. It’s SO, SO good. Get yourself a copy from the library or buy used on Amazon.

Insight: Why We’re Not as Self-Aware as We Think, and How Seeing Ourselves Clearly Helps Us Succeed at Life and Work (YES, IT’S A MOUTHFUL! But I highly, HIGHLY recommend this book from Tasha Eurich – and not just because our last names sound the same. It’s my favorite non-fiction book of the year thus far.)

The Book of Essie by Meghan MacLean Weir – One of my BOTM selections that I was initially excited about… the daughter of a preacher – the family has a reality show – and a secret pregnancy, has all the makings for a fun drama. But ultimately the story fell flat for me.

How to Be Yourself: Quiet Your Inner Critic and Rise Above Social Anxiety – One of my top favorites picks for the year so far! I really appreciated how Hendricksen broke down all the concepts and theories of social anxiety. I actually learned a lot more about myself (and my social anxiety) than I knew was connected to this disorder. I’m what you would probably call “high functioning” with my social anxiety at the present (if that is even a thing), but when it takes over, it COMPLETELY takes over my life that to the point where it is debilitating and (often) destructive. Thankfully, that’s not as often as it has been in years past.

Bring Me Back by B.A. Paris – The publisher sent me an advance copy of this book. I figured out the plot early on – and the further into the book, the more it felt like it was finished by someone else. Despite that, its manic diverging and writing kept me hooked through the end. Solid 3 stars.

The Favorite Sister by Jessica Knoll – I struggled with how many stars to give this book. Honestly, I didn’t care for the story or ANY of the characters. Why did I finish it?! I had it with me on my two-week internship trip to California, so I decided to stick with it. Two stars because the ending was a surprise, but FIVE OUT OF FIVE EYES ROLLING (I mean, even the characters were rolling their eyes constantly).

Meditation for Life by Justyn Comer – Not all meditation books are created equal, and they all have a unique purpose or perspective. Comer (by way of the publisher) was gracious enough to send me a copy, as I consume basically all the meditation books I can get my hands on (did you know that I’m taking mindful practice course as part of my graduate program?!). I found this book to be a practical and useful guide based on Comer’s own experiences. A great resource for anyone curious about a meditative practice and how mindfulness can bring you fulfillment in various ways.

Mindful Framing – mehhhhhhhh. Double meh because the author called me out in a comment on my Goodreads review basically stating it was impossible to finish his book (and that I lacked the intelligence to digest the “complex set of… ideas”) in one sitting. Just… ew.

Sweet Little Lies by Caz Frear

Wherever You Go, There You Are by Jon Kabat-Zinn – the third book I’ve read from Kabat-Zinn. If you’re ready to go deeper into the what and how of mindfulness, his books are like the gold standard!

Baby Teeth by Zoje Stage – I received an advance copy from the publisher and BOYYYY was this a weird book! Some of the story felt wholly unbelievable at times but I couldn’t wait to finish it. AND because it was written by a Pittsburgh-based author, I got a few fun snippets of nostalgia.

Cross Her Heart by Sarah Pinborough – Solid 3.5 stars. Something about her books really irritate me; like, the endings or final chapters all feel like a rush to publish. What was really an engaging book at the start got more unfamiliar and, well, stupid the further I read. I liked the characters better in Cross Her Heart than in Behind Her Eyes, but in both books I haven’t really had an honest connection that lasted throughout. Some eye-rolling, but would still recommend for a suspenseful read.

Here is the book that I rolled my eyes at and didn’t both finishing because OH GOD IT’S SO TERRIBLE:

You Are a Badass – I won’t even link to it and give it more thought and space. There are SO many better books out in this space that synthesize the tools for “being a better you.” Read one of those instead.

Follow through for my Goodreads Book Challenge page to click through all the individual books – and add me as a friend! I obviously plan to read beyond my challenge goal – I’m aiming for 30 books finished by the end of the year.

*Referral links are included in this post: For BOTM: if you join, I get a free book! On Amazon, I get a small earning… which I’ll probably use on more books.